When a person won’t listen

These were more fair-minded than those in Thessalonica, in that they received the word with all readiness, and searched the Scriptures daily to find out whether these things were so. Therefore many of them believed, and also not a few of the Greeks, prominent women as well as men. Acts 17:11-12

The Bereans were open to hear the Word, and they checked what they heard next to the Bible. (Read yesterday’s post for why that is so important!) The results: many believed!

Two characteristics found in those who receive the Lord: (1) They’ll listen. (2) The power is in the Word.

We cannot be surprised when people do not want to hear about Christ and the gospel. Many simply do not. Though we should try anyway, if it is clear that they don’t want to hear it, continuing to press can drive people further away. This does not mean we give up on them! Instead, try saying something like this:

“It seems as though you are not interested. I get it. There was a time that I wasn’t either. But God graciously changed my heart. My prayer is that He might graciously change yours someday too. Let me know if you ever want to ask any questions. I’m only telling you this because I care for you.”

Then be sure to remember that person in prayer, asking the Lord to change the person’s heart and you give you other opportunities to share Christ with this person. That you respected their wishes, may go a long way in keeping the door open for another go at an different time…