Then the contention became so sharp that they parted from one another. And so Barnabas took Mark and sailed to Cyprus; but Paul chose Silas and departed, being commended by the brethren to the grace of God. And he went through Syria and Cilicia, strengthening the churches. Acts 15:39-41
The dynamic missionary duo of Paul and Barnabas had a disagreement that ended in a separation. That was sad, but God, who always accomplishes His purposes in spite of our failures, used it for good.
In the previous post we commented on one of two lessons to be learned from this account. (For the sake of context, go back and read the previous post if you missed it.)
The second important lesson for us is that when division happens, we must not withdraw from following the Lord. Besides the ugliness of divisions between believers and in churches, one of the worst negative outcomes is that some drop out altogether. This is truly tragic.
Paul and Barnabas did no such thing. They both went on serving the Lord, though in two separate teams. Let us never depart from the Lord or from involvement in a local church because Christians sometimes behave badly! We follow Christ—not His servants!
Sometimes those who withdraw altogether only prove that they never really knew the Lord—otherwise that would not have dropped out altogether. This is sad, indeed. Let us remember those who have done this, praying that they would repent if they are believers, or that they would come to true faith if they are not believers.
Bitterness and unforgiveness are not marks of followers of Christ. So even of we are no longer “best friends” with those we were formerly more closely associated, we must not allow “a root of bitterness” to drive us away from the Lord, from His Church, or even from being civil with one another.
A Wonderful Footnote: Paul and Mark were eventually reconciled (2 Timothy 4:11).